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John 11:17-32

Jesus Comforts the Sisters of Lazarus

     17 On his arrival, Jesus found that Lazarus had already been in the tomb for four days. 18 Now Bethany was less than two miles from Jerusalem, 19 and many Jews had come to Martha and Mary to comfort them in the loss of their brother. 20 When Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went out to meet him, but Mary stayed at home.

     21 “Lord,” Martha said to Jesus, “if you had been here, my brother would not have died. 22 But I know that even now God will give you whatever you ask.”

     23 Jesus said to her, “Your brother will rise again.”

     24 Martha answered, “I know he will rise again in the resurrection at the last day.”

     25 Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; 26 and whoever lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?”

     27 “Yes, Lord,” she replied, “I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, who was to come into the world.”

     28 After she had said this, she went back and called her sister Mary aside. “The Teacher is here,” she said, “and is asking for you.”29 When Mary heard this, she got up quickly and went to him.30 Now Jesus had not yet entered the village, but was still at the place where Martha had met him. 31 When the Jews who had been with Mary in the house, comforting her, noticed how quickly she got up and went out, they followed her, supposing she was going to the tomb to mourn there.

     32 When Mary reached the place where Jesus was and saw him, she fell at his feet and said, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.”

Yesterday’s Reflection was based on the beginning of this story, in which word reached Jesus that his dear friend Lazarus was gravely ill in the town of Bethany. But strangely, even though Lazarus and his sisters Mary and Martha were beloved friends of Jesus – like siblings – he delayed returning to Bethany until after Lazarus had died.

In today’s part of the story, Jesus gets there at last. The text says that by then, Lazarus had already been in the tomb for four days. The historians and Bible scholars say the four-day period was significant, because in Jewish thought of the time, being dead for three days meant you were really dead beyond any doubt. The scholars say some ancient Jews would visit a loved one’s tomb after three days just to make sure. So by delaying his return until four days after Lazarus’ death, Jesus was establishing the fact that Lazarus was definitely dead.

When he gets to Bathany, Jesus has conversations with Martha and Mary. These are powerful scenes, full of the conflicted emotions that go with a tragic death. The two sisters express grief and loss, but also disappointment – and maybe even anger – toward Jesus.

When word arrives that Jesus is nearby, Martha comes to meet him, but Mary stays at home with the mourners who have come to comfort the sisters. Some Bible scholars have pointed out that this seems consistent with what we know about the two sisters from the story in Luke about Jesus being a guest in their home. Martha is the more active of the two. She seems to instinctively want to be doing something. We might say that Mary is more introspective, taking time to sit and process her grief. Mary might also be the more emotional of the two – Martha walks up and starts talking to Jesus, while Mary throws herself at his feet.

It’s interesting that both sisters say exactly the same thing to Jesus: “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” (I can’t help wondering if that means that they had agreed on that before Jesus arrived.) And what they said seems to reveal the powerful and conflicted emotions we mentioned. It seems clear that they believed that Jesus had great power to heal the sick. But there’s also a measure of disappointment there – a sense that their beloved friend Jesus had failed them.

And then Martha goes on to add something more: “But I know that God will give you whatever you ask.” Not all the Bible scholars agree about what she meant, but I take it as a desperate plea for Jesus to raise her brother from the dead.

In the text, Jesus responds by saying, “Your brother will rise again.” Lots of Jews in that time believed in the resurrection, so Martha might just have been repeating Jewish common wisdom of the day when she said, “I know he will rise again in the resurrection at the last day.”

But Jesus wasn’t just talking about Jewish “common wisdom.” He was revealing a very important truth: that he was and is the living embodiment of that resurrection Martha was hoping for. That resurrection would soon become a living reality through Jesus. His resurrection would be a sign that those who believe in him will share eternal life in the kingdom he had come to announce.

Then Jesus asks Martha a direct question: Do you believe this? And Martha declares her belief, not only that what he has said is true, but also that he is in fact the Messiah promised to her people through the prophets over the centuries.

It’s hard to imagine what Martha’s emotions would be like in that moment. Just a couple of minutes before, she had been in the grip of the darkest grief and heartbreak. But now Jesus has brought a glimmer of light into her darkness. He has revealed a truth of new life that she could hardly comprehend. I’m not sure Martha had ever really considered the possibility that her friend Jesus was the Messiah. It certainly wasn’t obvious to his disciples, and as we know, Jesus was nothing like what the Jews expected of the Messiah. But here in this story, through her tears on a road outside Bethany, Martha is led to understand that Jesus was and is the Messiah.

Then she leaves and goes to Mary. And reaching Jesus, Mary falls at his feet and expresses to him the very same mixture of grief and faith and disappointment that her sister had expressed moments before: “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.”

In tomorrow’s reflection, we’ll read and think about the ending to this powerful story from the Gospel of John.

Let’s pray. Lord, we thank you for this great story, and for the faith and friendship these sisters felt for our Lord and theirs. We thank you that their faith in Jesus, even in moments of deepest grief and disappointment, can cause our own faith to be strengthened and built up twenty centuries later. Amen.  

Every Blessing,

Henry